Dances of the Spark火花之舞

The song reminds me the sparks and all the moments throughout the years. Under the moonlight, a little dwarf started to dance along with the song on my shoulder, singing about the stories that carried by the wind and faded in time…….

Dances of the Spark

The usual full moon night

Became unusual when the surface of the quiet lake rippled

Just like

the fireworks of the 4^th of July

the shooting stars across the horizon

That full moon night

Losing the sense of direction

Fear arose

Yet

Calmed and in peace somehow

Because you were by my side

Didn’t know that it would be a decade long trap

trapped till it was eye blinding

trapped till the lost of sanity

trapped till losing sight of what love really is

Wishes were being whispered that

To be able to always support and fulfill the very promise made

To be able to understand the underlying of each sentence you meant

To be able to run towards you when you needed me the most

To be able to always be there for each other

Optimistic thoughts arose that

Obstacles could be overcome

Misunderstandings could be solved

Understandings could be achieved

Time would settle all the issues

Love was strong enough to overcome time, space and barriers

And, we always had each other

I guess, we were still kids

Getting bored quickly

Giving up easily

Drowning in superficiality

Somehow, somewhere in time

Left only with the naïve kid

Being challenged to face the obstacles and the lost of love ones

The kid

Who would still laugh when crying

Who would still thought that the moon followed her whenever she goes

Who would still believe there would always be rainbow after each rain

Who would still believe that you would be always there

Who would always be praying for miracles each and every time with full faith,

even though the miracles didn’t happen

Who died, one fine day when her prayers stopped

Rest in peace,

The spark that lasted for a glimpse of eye

Rest in peace,

The trap that lasted for a decade long

Rest in peace,

Sincere emotions being interpreted as fool’s acts

Rest in peace,

The kid who was born from heart
                                                                                                                          ------Y.F.Mok

Dear Lord,

Gratitude for the thrilling and fruitful journey full of tears and laughter

Forgive the kid for having faith in what she thought worth having faith in

Bless the kid to rest in peace

and for a rebirth full of love, happiness, courage, wisdom, wholesome and not losing hope

in something call faith

*****end of dance, end of story *****

for now

Jordin Sparks – Tattoo 

May lovers stand by each other’s side as always

May bachelors and bachelorettes find the love of life

Happy Qi Xi.

Cheers to the little kids in all of the hearts,

SLAlpha

Eggonometry 鸡蛋学

Lap Chun in Lunar Calendar, or Spring/Vernal Equinox, literally means the start of spring. So this year spring starts on the 4/2/18. Though it is all year round summer here, not much excitement of the change of seasons or seasonal activities we have here, yet our culture adds some hype in it. There are few practices/believes in our culture that some may practice during this day:

1) Cleaning the house for the flow of positive energy

2) Switching on all the lights in the house, a symbolism for a brighter future

3) Decorating the house themed with red decorations as an act for prosperity

4) Banking in money to the bank account for the belief of boosting the luck of wealth

5) Standing the eggs (yes, literally and physically “standing” the eggs)

I don’t usually practice item 4 and 5 for all these years but I had broken the tradition this year due to all the hypes around. The messages had been flying all over the place. A friend of mine was asking me whether I have tried standing the eggs. Excuse me? Erm, didn’t our parents advise us not to play with our food? Besides, I wonder what is so fun playing with the eggs. We used to have these scenes of a whole bunch of kids (the students) and few adults (the teachers) squatting at the corridor under the sun trying to balance the eggs to make them stand. I would be sitting on the side-lines at my desk enjoying the eggs balancing show. Hah, riddikulus!

After x moons passes and *cough* now it was my turn to have fun with the eggs…..Riddikulus seems to work. And, yes. I gave it a shot.

Now, you would have seen that a human form like figure squatting at the car porch with an egg trying to balance it on different areas of the floor. Out of my expectation, it stood after 20 minutes of trying. You would now see the human like figure "posing" on the floor trying to get the best angles for capturing the glorious moment. Selfies with egg, which are Eggfies. 

Overwhelm with self-satisfaction and pride, I tried to challenge myself balancing another few eggs.

 

Now, another scene of a human form like figure squatting with several eggs on the floor trying to balance them with one egg at each hand. The eggs will be merrily rolling all over the place and the human like figure will be frantically chasing after the rolling eggs under a ray of hot sun……karma of having fun watching over other people’s “egging” game.

One of them stood, finally, after 30 minutes of being a Mad Egg Chaser. Yes, another round of eggfies. When God opens a window, He closes one door. A breeze of wind caused the standing egg to fall flat on the floor. Well, at least 2 attempts were successful. *please excuse me for my high EQ spirit*

While I was merrily sharing *cough, should be bragging* my fruitful attempts with people around, one of them actually suggested me to glued the eggs with double side tape……Anyway, playing a game with and without cheatcode, the difference is the level of self-satisfaction and achievement, no?

Any of you guys have tried out the “eggonometry”? Give it a try, bet you, it will be very fun. Yes, very, very, FUN. And don’t play with cheatcode kay.

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Thought of putting my post title as “playing with eggs”, but I believe that this will bring about some pretty interesting misunderstanding *raising both eyebrows*.  But still, my persistent will of showing my effort put in “standing” the eggs *sweat* for an hour plus lights up the word “eggonometry”. Yes, not ergonometric, it is EGGonometry, as a way to brag all the sweat, time and effort put in just to make some oval like item called an egg stand…..

Have fun,
SL Alpha

A Farewell Note to 2017 永别2017

It is nearly going to be a year since my last post. Apologies for the delay as 2017 had been a very eventful and emotional year for me. Right, do spare me with some excuses. Anyhow, each and every year has been eventful, if you slow your pace down and look around (*perhaps I might have slowed my pace and looking around a bit too much with too many events…..*squatting and drawing circles at the corner of the wall…..)

At the beginning of the year, I had been through several farewells of pretty closed cohorts which I have been with them for several years. Very sweet and nice people. I had a few farewell luncheons with them to spare all of my tears and sorrows (*please excuse me of my exaggerating expression, humans are made of 60% of water anyway). Aside from the sadness, sincerely wish them all the best in their future endeavours.

Secondly, we had shifted to a new neighbourhood. So basically new environment, new neighbours, new routes and new ‘culture’. The most exciting was, I handled the shifting from Aay to Zee, you name it and you will get it from the list, literally and physically. It was challenging and exhausting, but anyway a new exciting experience. My biggest challenge among all other challenges of the new neighbourhood was the new routes. Yes, I mean new ROUTES. 

You see, there seem to be some cells in absence for the road recognition function…..And the thrilling part was, I couldn’t even seem to find my way home. Yes, I was literally “squealing” in the car, when my waze app or google app or whatsoever app in my hp failed me by temporarily being out of space and refused to function. Laughable but who would have known that I managed to direct my team members home at night back from a field trip project in my undergrad studies. And the main point was, without the help of waze/google map. *grin* Yeah I need to admit that, there were no waze nor google map app at that point in time, else I won’t be elected to be the human compass/GPS for such an important task. God gracious that we didn’t end up in Timb**tu. *gloriously grinning*

Some point in time in 2017, we had lost another dearest member. A loving, wise, kind, strong, loyal and forgiving kin. I will keep it posted in Another Farewell. I think, what I will recall during my last breath will be the people dear to me, rather than the materials and accomplishments for the whole life. Looking back at the people that I had lost, I keep on pondering when I will be left behind and when I will be the next. There will always be birth and death, but the point in life is, life can’t wait, cherish, appreciate and pursue while you are still able to. It is a journey to be travelled with full faith, courage and love.

Forth, I had recently switched industry from one that I had been in for years. Yes, I had another few rounds of farewells and luncheons (*dancing in circles merrily* luncheon is one of the favourite activities for a foodie, set aside the agenda for farewell), some even I didn’t manage to meet up due to the time constraint. I left with quite a heavy heart as it was the industry I have grown up with and sincere people that I had been working with for years. They were like friends and family. Will definitely be missing them very much. Wish me luck in my new venture.

New year, new hope
SL ALpha

The Rose 玫瑰

Sharing one article received which I find pretty meaningful.  Since there is no title to the article, I'll just name it as "The Rose".

The Rose
She said, “Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I’m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?”

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, “Of course you may!” and she gave me a giant squeeze.

“Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?” I asked.
She jokingly replied, “I’m here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids…”

“No seriously,” I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.

“I always dreamed of having a college education and now I’m getting one!” she told me.

After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months, we would leave class together and talk non-stop. I was always mesmerized listening to this “time machine” as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.

Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she revelled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I’ll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, “I’m sorry I’m so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I’ll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.”

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, “We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing.

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success.
You have to laugh and find humor every day.
You’ve got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.
We have so many people walking around who are dead and don’t even know it!

There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don’t do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old.
If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.

Anybody can grow older. That doesn’t take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change.

Have no regrets. The elderly usually don’t have regrets for what they did, but rather for things they did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.”

She concluded her speech by courageously singing “The Rose.” She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.

At the year’s end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.

One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep. Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it’s never too late to be all you can possibly be .

When you finish reading this, please send this peaceful word of advice to your friends and family, they’ll really enjoy it!

REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS
OPTIONAL.

We make a Living by what we get, We make a Life by what we give

End

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When things are broken and people are gone, their importance and existence only by then be noticed and realized. By then, everything is too late for any remedial actions.

Have long forgotten what I am fighting for since my main motivator has long gone. He had always strived to keep his promises and had been always kept his promises. Yet he broke his promise this time.

Have gave up several times in life and just living on for the sake of the people whom he had left behind. Still living on, with the only reason of fulfilling the promises I had made to him during the last time we would be seeing each other.

When you have to stand on your own feet, you'll actually see the world where there may be bystanders, "fleers", and more and more challenges ahead.

Yet there may be those who will be giving you strength.

Would like to express my gratitude to those who are giving me strength when at times of hopeless and helpless. A big thank you, for everything.

For those who are finding meaning in life;
For those who are finding reasons to live on; and
For those who are achieving their dreams

Cheers,

To all of us

You're never alone ;)

It'll be an unforgettable and memorable journey of life for us.

Pass the warmth on to those who are in need, and it'll get back to you in times when you need it the most.

Live On, Live Life
SL Alpha

2017 Letter To You 写给您的信

It’s 20 days past for 2016 and had this blog for 6 years. It is a period of metamorphosis from an adolescent to an adult and from comfortably taking shades to persevering on standing on own feet. It was just a short period of time, not even a decade, and things happen, most of which were unexpected. This was totally not what I had imagined how and who I will become decade ago. Shockingly epic and extravagant.

A friend of me told me that, he’s getting old, and I wonder if he is talking about physical or psychological. Most likely, the first, as aging doesn’t mean that one is maturing psychologically and mentally. There are people, who are fortunate enough to learn the easy way, and some even lucky enough to learn life the hard way. And the later, seems to appreciate and see things with a different perspective and in-depth understanding. The theory is not hard to be understood, as what comes easy goes easy. And how I wish that I can understand this decades ago, at least at the time when you are still here.

 It’s been 2 years since you left. Things have never been easier. Been growing through the tough way, but I wonder why the heart is getting emptier? How I wish, to see your smile, hear your laughter, listen to your lectures, share your moods and have your presence. It is way too late to realize and wish for all these that will no longer be there, yes?

You had always said that I wasted time on blogging, and now writing seems to be tougher without you around. I regretted that I didn’t tell you the reason of me “wasting time” on blogging. You know, I am fortunate enough that you share me your life and guide me in life, in turn, I would like to share it with those who didn’t get a chance like me. Though you had said that blogging is a waste of time, but, I knew you will be reading, as you were always there when I turn around and always there to watch my back.

Though this letter might not reach you and you are no longer able to respond to me, but I still want to let you know that, I, really miss you, as this feeling is aching inside as days pass. People say that time heals, but it is just that something or somebody is not of significance to be remembered for a very long period of time. When people or things matter, it might take decades or even a lifetime to forget.

Be well and have eternal happiness, Di.

***In eternal memory of M.P.C***

Explosion in kitchen 厨房爆炸

Please take note on what can and can't be used near fire as some daily used objects are flammable and may cause explosion. 

Below is a shared post:

This shocking accident happend.  A housewife died due to burns sustained in the kitchen. Her husband too was hospitalized for injuries due to burns while trying to rescue his wife.

How it happened:

The gas was on and cooking in progress.

The lady observed one cockroach near the sink and grabbed Spray bottle of insect killer and sprayed it near the gas, which was on.

There was an explosion and in no time the poor woman was covered in flames, sustaining 65% burns.

Her husband rushed in, tried to put out the flames and his clothes too caught fire.

The husband is still in hospital, in the burns ward, still unaware that his wife was declared dead on

arrival.

Let us understand: - All insect killer sprays such as "Hit", "Mortein" etc. have highly volatile and inflammable solvents.

The atomized nano spray particles spread very rapidly and one spark is enough to ignite this explosive mixture with oxygen present in air.

Cheers,
SL Alpha

Some Day & One Day 当有一天

As time flies and years go by, I wonder whether any of you feel afraid of how past time passes.

My dad once told me, ''I know time passes very fast when I see you growing up taller year by year, and now you are an adult. It was like yesterday when you were still at the height of my knee.'' Now I am able to comprehend his feeling when he said that.

24 hours do not seem to be enough for a day! Am I too greedy? I wonder what will happen if there is 48 hours a day? My guess will be working class has to work 24 hours a day! Well, blue and white collars know what I am saying. Guess it does do something good to the mankind by keeping a day 24 hours. But aren't we the ones who came up with that?

Well, the post that I am sharing below reminds me few personal incidents, which only all resulted in one same conclusion- time does not wait. I have thought of bring my dad to circum navigate one day, thought of waiting him to share his old grandfather stories of our family to his grandchildren someday, and thoughts of many 'somedays' and 'maybe one day'. In the end, dad left and my 'some days' all went into 'never ever will be a day'.

Just personal opinion here, there is no'some day and one day', there is just 'today' and 'never ever will be a day'.

Hereby sharing a post that i had received:

SOME DAY & ONE DAY

A friend of mine opened his wife's wardrobe and picked up a silk paper wrapped package.

"This," he said, "isn't any ordinary package."

He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk paper and the box n silk satin dresses inside.

"She got this the first time we went to New York , 8 or 9 years ago. She has never put it on , was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it."

He got near the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothing he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died.

He turned to me and said, "never save something for a 'special occasion'. Every day in your life is a 'special occasion'".

I still think those words changed my life.

Now I read more and clean less.

I sit on the porch without worrying about anything.

I spend more time with my family, and less at work.

I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up to, not survived through.

I no longer keep anything.

I use crystal glasses every day.

I'll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if I feel like it.

I don't save my special perfume for special occasions, I use it whenever I want to.

The words 'Someday....' and ' One Day...' are fading away from my dictionary.

If it's worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now.

I don't know what my friend's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there the next morning, this nobody can tell.

Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.

Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.

Cheers,
SL Alpha

Precautions when eating prawns 吃蝦的禁忌

收到朋友的信息，在此转发。还没有成为素食者前，因老爸爱吃海鲜，所以一家人有空便会到漁村品尝新鲜海产。咱小时本来就爱喝橙汁，所以都会在用餐时点一杯边喝边吃。还记得有一次边吃海鲜边喝果汁，餐后感到有些不适。幸亏没吃很多的虾。。。。。


吃蝦的禁忌
     請大家注意, 吃蝦的禁忌 (就算您是素食者, 也要提醒別人哦！)

     我有個在 JKT 的朋友, 吃了蝦, 蟹再喝橙汁, 即刻走咗....

     我前天晚餐吃了一些蝦, 回到家還好好的, 豈知吃了一粒 1000mg 的維他命 C, 馬上頭暈, 第二天上午還頭暈, 在床上休息一天才好.

一定要看!!

     吃蝦的禁忌, 吃蝦的時候, 喝橙汁等於自殺 ~~
   
     蝦 + 橙汁 = 死 ?

     蝦 + 維生素 C = 砒霜------- 女孩一夜暴斃臺灣

     一名女孩突然無緣無故的七孔流血暴斃, 一夜之間, 就奔赴黃泉, 經過初步驗屍.  斷定為因砒霜中毒而死亡.

那砒霜從何而來？

     一名醫學院的教授被邀趕來協助破案, 教授仔細地察看了死者胃中取物, 不到半個小時, 暴斃之謎便揭曉.

     教授說：死者並非自殺, 亦不是被殺, 而是死於無知的『它殺』」大家莫名其妙.  教授說：「砒霜是在死者腹內產生的.」

     死者生前每天也會服食「維他命 C」, 這完全沒有問題, 問題出在她晚餐吃了大量的蝦, 吃蝦本身也是沒有問題的, 所以她在家吃了都沒有事, 但死者卻同時服用了「維他命! C」, 問題就出在這！

     美國芝加哥大學的研究員, 通過實驗發現, 蝦等軟殼類食物含有大量濃度較高的－五鉀砷化合物.

     這種物質食入體內, 本身對身體並無毒害作用, 但是, 在服用「維生素 C」之後, 由於化學作用，使原來無毒的－五鉀砷 (即砷酸酐, 亦稱五氧化砷)，其化學式為 (As2O5)，轉變為有毒的三鉀砷 (即亞砷酸酐),,又稱為三氧化二砷, 其化學式為(As2O3), 這就是們俗稱的砒霜!

     砒霜有原漿毒作用, 能麻痹毛細血管, 抑制巰基梅的活性, 並使肝臟脂變肝小葉中心壞死, 心、肝、腎、腸充血, 上皮細胞壞死, 毛細血管擴張.

     故中其毒而死者, 常是七竅出血.

     所以；為慎重起見, 在服用維生素 C 期間, 應當忌食蝦類.

     現在很多飲料, 都有維他命C。大伙儿食用前请留意标签。

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吃多些蔬果会对身体比较好。咱原本是无肉不欢，日本料理(尤其是刺生)更是咱的最爱，可以吃上好几盘。但经历过父亲的事件后，感触甚多。所以我自称现在是'plant eater' 也就是'植物食用者'的意思。呵。会发文文与大伙儿分享吃素心得。尽请期待~~~~
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感恩，
SL Alpha

Learning Mandarin 中文真难学

这一大早收到一封笑文，害得咱在那自己拿着手机笑，不知有没有人会误以为咱有精神病。

Chinese is so difficult to learn."
就这四个中文字来说
“大不一样”
     一美女兴致勃勃地问医生：“我想丰胸，但是丰胸后会有什么效果？”
     医生淡定地答道：丰胸后，一般会有四种结果：
     1. 大不一样；
     2. 不大一样；
     3. 一样不大；
     4. 不一样大！
     世界上没有其它的文字能够有这样的功能，中文万岁！
               
中文字的奥妙
     外国人学中文，确实不容易。中文字的奥妙，常常让学中文的老外晕倒，分享几个段子：
     一、方便
     一位刚学过一点中文的美国人来到中国，中国朋友请他吃饭。
     到了饭店落座，中国朋友说：“对不起，我去方便一下。”
     那老外没明白，“方便”是哪里？
     见老外疑惑，中国朋友告诉他说“方便”，口语里是“上厕所”的意思。
     哦，老外意会了。
     席间，中国朋友对老外说：“我下次到美国，希望你能帮忙提供些方便。”
     老外纳闷了：他去美国，让我提供些厕所干嘛？
     道别时，另一位在座的中国朋友热情地对老外说：“我想在你方便的时候请你吃饭。”
     见老外吃惊发愣，中国朋友接着说：“如果你最近不方便的话，咱们改日……”
     老外无语。
     “咱找个你我都方便的时候一起吃饭吧。”
      老外随即晕倒。

     二、乳
     一位老师向老外学生解释“乳” 字的含意：乳即是小的意思，比如乳鸽、乳猪等。
     讲解完，老师要求老外学生用“乳”字造句。
     老外学生造句说：“现在房价太高了，所以我家只能买得起20平方米的乳房。”
     老师听了，冒着冷汗说：“再造一个！”
     老外学生：“我年纪太小，连一米宽的乳沟都跳不过去。”
     老师冷汗如雨下，说：“再造一个！”
     老外学生说：“老师我真的想不出来了，我的乳头都快想破了！”

     三、意思
     某老外苦学汉语10年，到中国参加汉语考试。
     试题之一：
     请解释下文中每个“意思”的意思：
     阿呆给领导送红包时，两个人的对话颇有意思。
     领导：“你这是什么意思？”
     阿呆：“没什么意思，意思意思而已。”
     领导：“你这就不够意思了。”
     阿呆：“小意思，小意思。”
     领导：“你这人真有意思。”
     阿呆：“其实也没有别的意思。”
     领导：“那我就不好意思了。”
     阿呆：“是我不好意思。”
     这老外给中国华文弄晕了，一头雾水。
     中文的“意思”太深奥了，于是他交白卷回国。

***在上班的路上发文，没注意撞到了棵树。呜，头好疼啊!!!!***


头疼中，
SL Alpha

2016 Happy Father's Day 父亲节快乐

不知道大伙儿有听过这首《酒干倘卖无》吗?倘若没有，咱在这放了youtube的连载。这首歌在咱那儿是首脍炙人口的歌噢。

以下是小雪收到的简讯:
《酒干倘卖无》

终于知道了 酒干倘卖无 暗示什么意思了！感动了千万人......

《酒干倘卖无》是一首80年代从台湾传遍华夏大地的歌曲，在南方地区也广为传唱。“酒干倘卖无”的意思是闽南语“有空酒瓶卖吗？”……

这首歌来自于一个真实的故事：
一个跛脚的老人靠收集空酒瓶养活自己，老人有些聋哑，不会说话，孤单的一个人，生活够苦的了。

有一天他在街上捡到一个孩子，他欣喜异常，认为是上天赐给他唯一的礼物。

老人将孩子带回家，用辛苦收来的空酒瓶，换钱买廉价的奶粉，让那个小女孩活了下来，女孩在6岁的时候捡了一条小狗，取名旺才。

小狗，聋哑老人，小女孩相依为命地生活在一起，小女孩的童年就在那一堆如山的空酒瓶中成长。
天生的好嗓子让她成为聋哑人的传话机，在每个清晨女孩牵着老人，拄着拐杖。

女孩大声的喊着：酒干倘卖无、酒干倘卖无。

再后来，小女孩长大了，恋爱了，她爱上了一个作词家。

年青的作词家一穷二白，但很爱她，带她走进了艺术天地，为她写了很多歌，对老人也非常好，每次来都会帮老人运酒瓶，和老人比划着说话，逗旺才......

然而有一天，女孩成名了，生活发生了质的变化，房子，汽车，周围追求的人......女孩还是很爱男孩，劝他和她一起住进大别墅，不要回酒瓶屋了，因为又聋又哑的父亲，让她觉得羞辱！

男孩不愿意，仍和老人来往，后来女孩越来越忙，名气越来越大，生活完全由经济人安排。老人想念女儿，央求男孩带他去找女儿，但是还没进演唱会的大门就被哄出来了......

再后来女孩也烦了，丢给老头一笔钱让他不要再打扰，老人擦干了含泪的眼睛，没要女孩的一分钱，走时还留下女孩一直爱吃的一小袋松子！

男孩看不过去了，找女孩理论，女孩心里听不进任何劝言，因为两人地位悬殊，最终只能分手。但老人终因思念女孩终于病倒了，男孩只好央求女孩，希望她能回家看看老人，女孩没听他的！

就在这时，男孩打听到女孩唱歌的地方，他告诉了老人，老人挣扎着要去看女儿最后一面。不料走在路上，一辆卡车飞驰过来，眼看就要撞着老人了，老狗旺才猛地拱向了老人，旺才就这样死了。

男孩知道后决定为女孩写最后一首歌，他连夜赶，顶着长期的贫困和思念，在他身体快不行的时候，写下了这首歌，让人送给了那个女孩。

男孩写完歌词后也离开了人世间，演唱会上女孩不情愿地打开纸条，这首歌的歌词大意是：

多么熟悉的声音，
陪我多少年风和雨，
从来不需要想起，
永远也不会忘记。
没有天哪有地，
没有地哪有家，
没有家哪有你，
没有你哪有我，
假如你不曾养育我，
给我温暖的生活，
假如你不曾保护我，
我的命运将会是什么！
是你抚养我长大，
陪我说第一句话，
是你给我一个家，
让我与你共同拥有它，
虽然你不能开口
说一句话，
却更能明白人世间的
黑白与真假，
虽然你不会表达你的真情，
却付出了
热忱的生命，
远处传来你
多么熟悉的声音，
让我想起你
多么慈祥的心灵，
什么时候
你再回到我身旁，
让我再和你一起唱，
酒干倘卖无，
酒干倘卖无...........

多年前的往事一一在现，堆积如山的空酒瓶，聋哑的父亲，为了给她买一包松子累晕在酷暑的街头，还有小狗旺才拖着尾巴和她玩耍！......女孩哭了，她终于良心发现，愧疚，伤心，不安！

她反复学着这首歌，最后登台的时候，她通知乐队加最后一首歌《酒干倘卖无》。

女孩忘情地唱着，台下所有的人震惊了，所有的人都流下了眼泪，女孩在台上讲述了自己的身世，然后不顾一切地跑向了医院，她要见自己的父亲。

当老人看到女儿时，一行老泪缓缓从腮边流下，老人什么也说不出口，只是微笑的看着女儿，慢慢的闭上了眼睛，女孩撕心裂肺的哭喊着，泣不成声......

这就是《酒干倘卖无》，一个真实的故事......

百善孝为先！
献给所有人！

也许，我们的父母，不曾带给我们优越的环境和更多的财务，但是他们却尽最大的能力，把我们养大，把他们最好的时光和经历都给了我们。

从呱呱坠地到咿呀学语，从慢慢会爬到渐渐行走，再到长大成人，他们付出了毕生经历和心血。

好好爱我们的父母吧，父母的养育恩，我们一辈子也报答不完。

******************************************
每一年的父亲节和父亲的生日小雪都会给父亲一张亲自画的卡片，虽然小雪的艺术天分好像抱歉了些，我还记的他每次收到卡片的表情都是一样的-- 欢喜欣然，笑得眼睛弯成一线，露出洁白的牙齿直说谢谢。

去年是很难过的一年，也是第一年没和父亲庆祝父亲节的一年，因为再也没这机会了。

还记得小时候，小雪需把头抬得高高仰望他。那时候的他，好高大。当他背着咱嬉戏时，他的肩膀，好宽好暖。

还记得当咱无助的哀泣，第一个最温暖的拥抱，是父亲的怀抱。眼泪湿了他的衬衣，但他的体温是热乎乎的。

还记得他最鼓励的话语:''没关系，尽力了就可以了....''

如太阳，天空和大地的海马爸爸，一天一天的被病魔摧残，一天比一天憔悴，笑容不再，希望不再。

还记得那个晚上，我歇斯底里地在他耳边斯喊着他，呼唤着他归来。第一次，他没回应我的苦苦哀求.....

他的离去，带走了好多好多我从来没发现过我拥有着的幸福。

现在想起来，幸福好简单，也好贵，因为金钱买不到。

Di,好挂住您。您在菓度好吗? 没您係度没人收孩儿做咯卡，所以以后瞴卡片啦，不过会日日放您在心度。祝您父亲节快乐。

孩儿玢上

2016 Happy Mother's Day 母亲节快乐

母亲节外出了，所以没发到文文。今天一大早便上来发了，大伙儿请勿怪，啊?首先在这儿祝母亲们:

【祝】感謝媽媽的十月懷胎
【天】感謝媽媽的多年養育
【下】感謝媽媽的噓寒問暖
【母】感謝媽媽的嚴加教育
【親】感謝媽媽的每一頓飯
【節】感謝媽媽的每一件衣
【快】感謝媽媽溫情的撫摸
【樂】感謝媽媽深切的叮嚀
【長】感謝媽媽永遠的牽掛
【命】感謝媽媽給我一個家
【百】感謝媽媽母親節到了
【歲】感謝媽媽母愛比山高
【福】感謝媽媽銘記在心梢
【如】感謝媽媽母愛比海闊
【東】感謝媽媽孝順是承諾
【海】感謝媽媽母愛比地廣
【壽】感謝媽媽幸福最久長
【比】感謝媽媽母愛比花香
【南】感謝媽媽快樂伴身旁
【山】感謝媽媽的養育之恩

亦父亦母的海马爸爸走了，每次都跟他过父亲节却没与他过母亲节。在这想祝他母亲节快乐，因他给了小雪双倍的爱，时间与生命。也在这感恩生下他和其他家人的伟大父亲母亲-小雪的爷爷奶奶。大伙儿，爱要及时喔。树欲静而风不止， 子欲养而亲不在，切记。无论多忙，至少抽空陪家人吃饭，你可能不知道，那顿饭对他们而言，千金不换。

在这儿跟大伙儿分享:

宽心
人活着，没必要凡事都争个明白。水至清则无鱼，人至清则无朋。跟家人争，争赢了，亲情没了；跟爱人争，争赢了，感情淡了；跟朋友争，争赢了，情义没了。争的是理，输的是情，伤的是自己。黑是黑，白是白，让时间去证明。放下自己的固执己见，宽心做人，舍得做事，赢的是整个人生；多一份平和，多一点温暖，生活才有阳光。

贫富
知足的人，虽然睡在地上，如处在天堂一样；不知足的人，即使身在天堂，也像处于地狱一般。人生，心灵富有最重要，若囿于物质欲望，即使拥有再多，也会觉得不够，这就是贫穷；反之，物质生活清贫，并不影响心灵的充实，知足而能自在付出，就是真正的富有。

计较
予人方便，就是待己仁厚。人心是相互的，你让别人一步，别人才会敬你一尺。人心如路，越计较，越狭窄；越宽容，越宽阔。不与君子计较，他会加倍奉还；不与小人计较，他会拿你无招。宽容，貌似是让别人，实际是给自己的心开拓道路。

放下
今天再大的事，到了明天就是小事；今年再大的事，到了明年就是故事；今生再大的事，到了来世就是传说，我们最多也就是个有故事的人。生活中、工作中遇到不顺的事，对自己说一声：今天会过去，明天会到来，新的一天会开始。

简单
心简单，世界就简单，幸福才会生长；心自由，生活就自由，到哪都有快乐。得意时要看淡，失意时要看开。人生有许多东西是可以放下的。只有放得下，才能拿得起。多一些宽容，多一些大度，挥挥手，笑一笑，一切的不愉快都会成为过去。

人心
别把他人的善良当软弱，那是一种大度；别把他人的宽容当懦弱，那是一种慈悲。好脾气的人不轻易发火，不代表不会发火；性子淡的人只是装糊涂，不代表没有底线。感情，不能敷衍；人心，不能玩弄；缘分，不能挥霍。把情当情，才有真感情；平等互爱，才有真人心。

福祸
积德虽无人见，行善自有天知。人为善，福虽未至，祸已远离；人为恶，祸虽未至，福已远离；行善之人，如春园之草，不见其长，日有所增；做恶之人，如磨刀之石，不见其损，日有所亏。福祸无门总在心，作恶之可怕，不在被人发现，而在于自己知道；行善之可嘉，不在别人夸赞，而在于自己安详。

感恩
感激伤害你的人,因为他磨练了你的心志；感激欺骗你的人,因为他增进了你的见识；感激鞭打你的人,因为他消除了你的业障；感激遗弃你的人,因为他教导了你应自立；感激绊倒你的人,因为他强化了你的能力；感激斥责你的人,因为他助长了你的定慧。感谢所有使你坚定成就的人,要生活在感恩的世界里，生活才会更精彩。

随缘
人生，不过一杯茶，满也好，少也好，争个什么；浓也好，淡也好，自有味道；急也好，缓也好，那又如何；暖也好，冷也好，相视一笑。人生，因为在乎，所以痛苦；因为怀疑，所以伤害；因为看轻，所以快乐；因为看淡，所以幸福。我们都是天地的过客，很多人事，我们都做不了主，一切随缘吧！


母亲节快乐，
SL Alpha

***发文于上班的路上，别人开车我写文。呵呵***

10 Advices 十句话

最近小雪(咱雪莲花的简名)没时间写文文，加班回到家头脑抗议说要休息，所以只能与大伙儿分享一些有意思的文文，以借此抒发小雪想念发文的心情，大伙儿能体谅吧?

看了以下的文，感觉到做公公婆婆的真不容易呢。嗯，让我看了可真操心将来有可能扮演的角色。咳嗯，还不知道公公婆婆长什么样呢，现在想的可真有些离谱远了。不过，儿孙有儿孙福，顺其自然就好。人生也是这短短数十年，看开了便活得轻松自在，是吧?我觉得呢，既然成了一家人，便没有分夫家或娘家的双亲，对方的父母不就是自己的父母么?同样的，也没有自己的或别人的儿子女儿之分， 不是吗?


律師呂秋遠給當公公婆婆的十句話︰

1.請不要堅持跟兒子與媳婦同住，最好把他們趕出去。就算他們只能租房子，那也是他們的事情。遙遠的距離美感，保證讓你們婆媳,公媳關係良好。

2.不要把您媳婦當女兒，只要把她當作您兒子的老婆、您的朋友，那也就可以了。您可以把您兒子永遠當作未成年，但請把您媳婦當作同輩一般的尊重。您罵她一句，她會記一輩子。這世界上，只有她媽能管她，而她媽不是您俩老。

3.您媳婦亂買東西、愛看韓劇、喜歡滑手機、不洗衣服煮飯、衛生習慣不好、不愛整理家裡、不會帶小孩等等的壞習慣，通通不關您事，那是您兒子跟她之間的事情，而您兒子的事情，也不關您的事，他真的成年了。

4.如果住在一起，請互相尊重。不要去碰他們夫妻的東西，不要幫他們洗衣服煮飯、不要幫他們帶孫子。除非您的媳婦拜託您，而您行有餘力願意幫忙，再考慮就好。他們的事，自己處理，不要煩您。

5.他們夫妻吵架，請裝作沒聽到。您跟您老公吵架，會希望婆婆，公公介入嗎？如果不希望，您現在介入會不會很怪？兒子抱怨的時候，就說媳婦好話，而且立刻忘記。至於媳婦抱怨，那就多罵您兒子幾句。

6.孫子的爸媽是您兒子與媳婦，不是您老公與您。隔代教養是不理想的，盡量讓他們親自帶孩子，尤其不要剝奪媳婦教養孩子的權利，怎麼看不慣，後果也是他們擔。

7.媳婦沒必要孝順您，該孝順您的是兒子，請培養兒子，成為一個有擔當的男人，協助您跟媳婦之間的相處。媳婦對您的好，要時常掛在嘴上，您對媳婦的好，要立刻忘記。

8.兒子在法院談離婚的時候，請不要來。這樣會讓他看起來很像媽寶，而且您也進不來調解室與法庭，只能在外面乾著急而已。

9.多規劃自己的退休生活，不要把重心放在兒子女兒身上，人生即便已經過半，還有許多有趣的新鮮事物可以學習。讓自己的晚年生活更璀璨，是您的任務，請在死去前把所有的財產花光，不要讓財產變成遺產。

10.孫子不是你們家的，而是他爸媽的寶貝。


感恩，
雪莲花Alpha

Definition of Home 什么是家？?

从whatsapp收到这篇文章，想要与大家分享。我从无家到有家，再从有家到半家，看了这文有不少感触。有些幸福，看不见也摸不着，唯有失去才察觉曾经拥有过。希望大家珍惜当下和身边人。

什么是家？?

家是夫妻共同经营的，编织着梦和苦辣酸甜的窝。 什么是夫妻？相爱一辈子，争吵一辈子，忍耐一辈子，这就是夫妻。

家要讲爱，不可讲理；家要安静，不可吵闹；家要清洁，不可凌乱；家要真诚，不可虚伪；家要自由，不可强制；家要温存，家要小节。家要关心、体贴、理解、包容、忍让，家要幸福。

家 是一个可以为我们遮风避雨的地方，家是一个可以给我们温暖、给我们希望的地方，家是一个可以让我们停靠的港湾，家也是我们精神上的寄托。是家给了我们希 望，让我们享受无尽的欢乐，家是人生旅途歇息的驿站，人生是漂泊在大海里的一只航船，家就是最安全的港湾。

家为我们指引前进的方向，家给了我们一双自由飞 翔的翅膀。梦不论在何方，一生的爱唯有家，家才是我们幸福的港湾。

家不是一个简单的概念，社会学家说家是社会的最小细胞；婚姻学家说家是风雨相依的两人世界。究竟什么是家呢，许多人认为这是一个不值得思考的问题。

那 么先让我们来听一个故事吧。有一个富翁醉倒在他的别墅外面,他的保安扶起他说: “先生,让我扶你回家吧! ”富翁反问保安: “家？！我的家在哪里？你能扶我回得了家吗？”。保安大惑不解,指着不远处的别墅说: “那不是你的家么？”

富翁指了指自己的心口窝，又指了指不远处的那栋豪华别墅，一本正经的,断断续续地回答说：“那,那不是我的家,那只是我的房屋。”

家 不是房屋，不是彩电，不是冰箱，不是物质堆砌起来的空间。物质的丰富固然可以给我们一点感官的快感，但那是转眼即逝的。

试想，在那个空间中，如果充满暴力 和冷战，同床异梦，貌合神离，“家”将不成为其家。而成为一个争斗的战场。汽车,不过是这个现代化的战场中的悲剧的摆设品罢了。难怪有一些大款自我解嘲 道: “我穷得只剩下钱了!”

家需要有爱的人。需要那份特别的真情实感，两个相互牵挂的人就是家，家在这里上升为一种信仰，一种宗教，一种支持精神力量。家是爱的聚合体,试看天下之家,皆为爱而聚,无爱而散。

家是一个感情的港湾，家是成长的摇篮，家是一个灵魂的栖息地，家是最能让自己放纵的地方，家是一个精神的乐园。家就是你和你家人在一起的情感的全部.拥有它时，它平凡如柴米油盐酱醋茶；失去它时，掏心掏肝也找不回。

没有家庭的和谐，就没有社会的和谐，没有家庭的平安，就没有整个社会的安宁有序，家和万事兴。

怎 样才能处理好夫妻之间的关系，这是摆在家中的最为关键的问题。

正所谓：“百年修得同船渡，千年修得共枕眠。”夫妻就是两个半球，“半个球无法滚动，要有另 一个半球。”那么夫妻之间如何相处才能使家庭和谐呢？夫妻之间相处要理解、信任、尊重、宽容。它就象握一把沙子，松松地握着，它一点也不会漏，你握得越 紧，它漏的就越多。

夫妻好比两条腿，要站稳，要走路，谁也离不开谁，为何一条腿对另一条腿总是抱怨不休。有夫妻说结婚数十年无矛盾 无分歧，可以断言，他们至少有一个人对家庭毫不负责，对对方毫不关心。婚姻是舒服着的烦恼。家庭不是讲理的地方，夫妻之道“难得糊涂。”倘若两个人谁都不 愿糊涂，这个家庭永无宁日。托尔斯泰说：“幸福的家庭是相似的，不幸的家庭各有各自的不幸”。

最 佳的婚姻配署不等于最佳的婚姻状态，没有对男人的仰视，没有对女人的欣赏，爱情将无从发生。婚姻将无从缠绵，爱在于“迷”，过分的清醒，盘算和比较，这不 是爱情。

美满的婚姻，爱情加良心就是一切，婚姻是纯洁的“自私”，爱情是神圣的“贪婪”，一旦对你不在自私了，说明你对她已不在重要了。

***posted during a queue....again***

With love,

SL Alpha

Seven Wonders 七大传奇

Hereby sharing a post received through whatsapp:

In a class assignment, the teacher asked the students to write the 7 Wonders of the World.

Though there were some disagreements, the following received the most votes:

1. Egypt's Great Pyramids
2. Taj Mahal
3. Grand Canyon
4. Panama Canal
5. Empire State Building
6. St. Peter's Basilica
7. China's Great Wall

While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one student had not finished her paper yet.

So she asked the girl if she was having trouble with her list.

The girl replied, "Yes, a little. I couldn't quite make up my mind because there were so many."

The teacher said, "Well, tell us what you have, and maybe we can help."

The girl hesitated, then read, "I think the 'Seven Wonders of the World' are:

1. to see
2. to hear
3. to touch
4. to taste
5. to feel
6. to laugh
7. and to love."

The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.

The things we overlook as simple and ordinary and that we take for granted are truly wondrous!!

If wealth is the secret to happiness, then the Rich should be dancing on the streets.
But only poor kids do that.

If power ensures security, then top Officials should walk unguarded.

But people who live on roadside feel
more secure.

If beauty brings ideal relationships, then celebrities should have the best marriages.
But they have one of the worst relationships.

Thats why...
Live simply...
Walk humbly ...

Love genuinely.

***posted during a xxx minute long queue in a mall. You need to wait to pay, not to mentioned that you need to squeeze through the crowd to pass through, so there borns online shopping. Personally, online shopping lacks of just a little something, 'physical interface'***


Apologies for not posting for xxx months, as since the departure of a member, lots of things changed and i have been taking my own time to suit the change. Hopefully there will be suitable time and situation for me to execise my fingers again on posting. I will be back! Fingers crossed. X)


With faith,
SL Alpha

癌症(Cancer)病患者的福音--佛说疗痔病经 (2/2)

在癌症(Cancer)病患者的福音--佛说疗痔病经 (1/2)，我上载了“铅笔写拼音”版本的佛说疗痔病经。我把这版本看了一遍又一遍，总觉得有愧于心。愧就愧于担心打印出来的拼音会显得十分模糊。伸长脖子等了又等，印刷商答应的Words format的文件等到
蚂蚁都睡了一觉，心，有些的不耐烦了。

想了想，不死心，也承蒙佛菩萨庇佑，让我想到法子注入拼音，甚胜欢喜。前几日也拿了这版本去印刷流传，想必这星期五便能拿到。翻印此经书

点击下载《佛说疗痔病经 》注音版


在这版本也许file size会比较大，在此请诸位多多包涵。
若要重温《佛说疗痔病经》的利益与精髓，可阅癌症(Cancer)病患者的福音--佛说疗痔病经 (1/2)。

希望被疾苦缠绕的能早日脱离病苦，也希望大家能广为流传此尊经，造福众生。

感恩，

S.L.α

癌症(Cancer)病患者的福音--佛说疗痔病经 (1/2)

今年参加了一场庄严的农历七月的中元法会。趁着休息时间，便四处走动参观。实属因缘巧合，在一佛殿内发现了两本经书和一本好书：《地藏菩薩本願經》,《佛说疗痔病经》和《中阴身自救法》。

第一本经我还略有所闻，至于《佛说疗痔病经》，介于本人孤陋寡闻，还是第一次接触此经。痔病，其实是古文癌症的代明。随着人类文明发展，虽然科技与医术也随时代并进，但也有些病使得医护人员无从下手，造成许多病人撒手人寰。

而本人其实说实在，在翻阅此经时感到十分震撼与悲痛。震撼在于两千五百多年前释迦牟尼佛已经说明了治疗癌症的方法，而这些方法便是聚集于《佛说疗痔病经》中。我佛慈悲，愿指导众生如何从这夺命病苦中自救。阿弥驼佛，深甚感动！

瞬间，我发觉，其实生为万物之灵的我们，还没有足够的智慧去解决很多事情与问题。“万物之灵”的名号，若只用于于其他级别的生物比较，则有过而无不及 。奈何，人的智慧十分有限。在此，希望各界顶尖的医护人员们，能尽百分之两百的医德，请务必要医身医心，缺一不可。希望医护人员们能体谅和接纳病人和病人家属的意见，若自以为博学而一意孤行，而造成无可挽救的遗憾，切记因果循环。

悲痛在于，倘若能早几年获得此经书，我可能就不会痛失至亲。

这经书文用繁体中文编著，用注音ㄅ Bㄛ Oㄆ Pㄛ Oㄇ Mㄛ Oㄈ Fㄛ O拼音。对于从幼学习汉语拼音和简体中文的我而言，阅读此经确实是个挑战。有鉴于此，我用铅笔在繁体中文旁注上了汉语拼音，希望能让更多人方便读诵此经。由于是用铅笔书写，拼音或许会显得较浅写，我建议将打印机色调调深些已让注音更清晰。

在下实在深感抱歉。等了印刷商的电子版等了将近一个月好让我在经书上附上拼音，到目前为止都还在等，没办法的情况下只好暂时用铅笔写拼音。倘若注音还是不清楚，欢迎留言让我知道。我再想其他办法。

点击下载《佛说疗痔病经 》

至于现在是智能手机时代，所以我特地将这经书制成pdf以方便携带。我很鼓励大家将整本书看完，相信我，大家会获益匪浅。有啥利益？在这就与大家分享：

1）经文咒语

这经文咒语得来不易。任何事情，讲究个"缘"字.你既然能动念想到上网搜索，又刚巧到这里看到这篇发文，又恰好有这耐性将这篇发文读完。这些，都是"缘"。倘若你有读完The Secret Code of Life 生命密码,你会了解到世上任何事并非理所当然。这"缘"字之中所牵引的，便是“因果”。

我那撒手人寰的至亲，便是少了这份缘。纵使我们一家人再怎么努力找法子挽救，只因“无缘”，便与此经擦身而过。或许你们会质疑此经文咒语威力，我也很老实说，我的确不知可不可行，只因没机会让我们借助此经救拔至亲。我也不怕坦白说明，若有一线生机，就算机率渺茫，人证物证寥寥无几，信誓薄弱，我们也会给与一试。倘若救得了，那是福报。当真救不了，那是因果。至少，我们已竭尽全力，了无遗憾。何况，真人真事例子全都写在了书内。

2）真人真事例子
这就是此经书微妙之二。里面的真人真事例子何止一二。这些例子都是这经文咒语如何救拔受病魔缠身的人证物证。将这些真人真事看完，你会信心倍增。

3）如何抗癌和防癌
素食，戒杀，宽心。
素食，自然身体健康
戒杀，自然延年长寿
宽心，自然灾祸远离
这三点能做到，不必防癌了。只因此人，想必患癌机率会低于常人


若真没时间，我在这略说癌症病患者的福音-《佛说疗痔病经 》的精髓：

1）诵经念咒

诵经3，5，7或21遍

每诵经1遍念咒至少念咒21次。念咒前切记要忌口，免五荤（葷菜，大蒜、蔥、蕎頭（小蒜）、韭菜、興渠（中藥稱為「阿魏」），指五種帶辛味的蔬菜）。

"明：
　　1、每天至少念1次文21次咒语消除癌症（古时称癌痔）等病苦灾
　　2 、如遇病痛时须以一杯圣水供於前1次文随念108次咒语再分成两杯：一杯喝下一杯擦病痛之处
　　3、切记：供奉祖之圣杯凡人不使用须将圣杯之水倒入自己茶杯中饮之 
　　——明取自《玉历宝钞》
  

　　隶属汉地唐密教大德如海涛法师慧律法师元音阇梨认文以治痔疮、癌症等恶疾" 

取自www.sxfj.org

2）素食和清淡饮食

尤其是患者，最好是持素。这是因为患者体质属酸性体质，由于肉类是酸性食物，再食肉会加剧酸性体质，这无非是屋漏偏逢连夜雨，船迟又遇打头风。反之，持素则能将酸性体质硷性化。

3）适量运动

多活动对身体有利，但切记适量即可。患者要量力而为，切莫着急而累坏了身体，适得其反。

4）多做善事

”古人言 ：人行善，福虽未至，祸已遠離； 人為惡，禍雖未至，福已遠離“

5）早睡早起，正常作息

6）乐观开心

保持这六点，诚心诵经念咒，不杀生，则心诚则灵。

还是那句话，将整本书看完，相信我，大家会获益匪浅。

感恩，

S.L.α

All Originated from Heart 一切唯心造

今天收到一封非常有意义的whatsapp,特在此转载与大家分享.文章的原名为《學習祝福, 停止咒詛》,但我会以《一切唯心造》为我的帖文标题,因为个人认为那是全文精髓所在.

~~~~學習祝福  停止咒詛~~~~

有一對醫生夫婦，他們有個兒子 , 這兒子帶給他們許多煩惱。不只如此 , 這兒子離家出走、斷絕音訊三、四年了。

醫生有一天門診時遇上一位患者是諮商師 , 於是把他心中的苦楚告訴對方。這名諮商師看著他說 : 「你已經咒詛兒子多久了 ? 」

這位醫生很訝異 , 他說 : 「你說我在咒詛兒子 , 這是什麼意思 ? 」

諮商師回答說 : 「所謂咒詛的意思就是 , 說另一個種種人的不是。剛才你所說的 , 都在告訴我有關你兒子的不是。你這樣咒詛兒子多久了呢 ? 」

這位醫生低著頭,說 : 「是的 , 他一出生我就咒詛他到現在 , 對他 , 我從來都不曾說一句好話。」

諮商師說 : 「結果是無效的 , 對吧 ? 」

「是的。」

於是諮商師說 : 「我要挑戰你和你妻子 , 在接下來的兩個月 , 當你們想到這兒子時 , 要祝福他 , 而不是想到他的不好。當你們說起兒子時 , 我要你們記得他好的一面 , 說他的好話。」

醫生回家後 , 把這事告訴太太 , 他們同意這諮商師的意見 , 也願意這麼做。當他們談起兒子時 , 他們嘗試記得兒子的優點。他們每天都持續這麼做。
大約過了第十天 ,醫生正在家裡休假 , 電話響了。

是的 , 電話的另一端竟是出走三、四年的兒子。兒子說 : 「爸爸 , 我真的不確定為何我會打電話給你 , 我只想告訴你這幾天 , 我一直想到你和媽媽 ,還有我們的家人 , 所以我只想打電話給你,看看你們好不好。」

這位父親說 : 「兒子啊 ! 我真的很歡喜能接到你的電話。」他們在電話中聊了幾分鐘 , 然後父親問 : 「我不知道你心裡怎麼想 , 但週六要不要一起吃晚餐 ? 」兒子欣然答應。

週末晚餐時間 , 這對父子見面了。
這位兒子穿著很破舊的衣服 , 留著一頭又亂又長的頭髮。

過去 , 父親肯定會嚴厲苛責兒子 , 然而這次 ,
父親以接納的態度面對兒子 , 在心裡祝福他。
他問兒子問題後 , 他就聽兒子的回答。兒子說到一些對的地方 , 他也給予肯定。

晚餐快結束時 , 兒子望著父親說 : 「爸爸 ! 我不知道發生什麼事 , 不過我很享受和你在一起的這段時間。」

父親回應說 : 「兒子 , 我也很享受和你在一起啊 ! 」

兒子說 : 「嗯 ! 爸爸 , 我想今晚在家裡過夜好嗎 ?
就今晚而已 , 我想看看媽媽和家人 , 還有我那張舊舊的床。」父親說 : 「當然可以啊 ! 我們很高興你能和我們在一起。」

那一整天 , 父親心裡驚覺當他停止咒詛兒子 , 而以祝福代之時 , 情況就有了極大的改變。

那天晚上 , 當兒子躺在他自己的床上時 , 父親來到兒子房間 , 坐下來對兒子說 : 「孩子 , 過去這麼多年來我對你很不好 , 你願意原諒我嗎 ? 」

兒子說 : 「爸爸 , 我當然原諒你啊 ! 」然後他就抱著父親 , 他們的關係從此開始和好。

然而這和好的關係真正是從什麼時候開始的 ?
是從這對父母開始為兒子祝福的時候開始的。

我們種的是什麼就收成什麼。

如果我們撒下咒詛的種子 , 我們就收咒詛 ;
若我們撒下祝福的種子 , 我們的收成就是祝福。
我們的生命經歷，完全是我們自己造成的。
我們的一思一念，都在創造我們的將來。

【最有力量的是「當下」，不是過去，也不是將來。】

每一個人都因為自我憎恨和批判，產生出很多痛苦。很多人都認定自己和他人「不夠好」，要知道這只是一個念頭，念頭是可以改變的。生命非常簡單，我們所貢。獻出去的，轉眼間就會把它們都收回來。

思想創造一切……

我們認為事情會變好，就會更好；
認為壞，它就會更壞。
所有我們生命中的痛苦和愉快，
都完全由自己所造成。
我們所思所想的「因」，就是在創造將來的「果」。
別忽略我們的一思一想，一言一行，
那些我們所思所想，
所說所做的，都在創造我們的將來。

這就是「一切唯心造」的道理。

~~~~全文完~~~~

感恩,
S.L.α

Prescription for Kidney and Bladder stones 肾及膀胱结石药方

Hereby share with you the prescription for kidney and bladder stones which I found when going through my parent's belongings.

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Disclaimer: Kindly consult your Chinese medicine practitioners for professional advice. The above is merely for reading purpose only.


Cheers,
S.L α

Cholesterol Content of Malaysian Ready to Eat Meals 一些大马熟食胆固醇的含量表

Below is the Cholesterol  Content of Malaysian Ready to Eat Meals if you are planning to visit Malaysia.
Most of the food below are some of Malaysia's most popular delicacies.

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Disclaimer: Kindly consult your medical practitioner for professional advice. The above is merely for reading purpose only.


Cheers,
S.L α

Dietary Instructions for Patients with Gout 患痛风者应注意的食物

Hereby share with you the dietary instructions for patients with gout which I found when going through my parent's belongings.

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Disclaimer: Kindly consult your medical practitioner for professional advice. The above is merely for reading purpose only.


Cheers,
S.L α